Being Ignored...
Was just sitting near the window watching the downpour. Road is fully covered with hailstones and is looking like a snowfall. Sipping coffee I observed a dog running all different directions to get a shelter and is shooed by people. I was just curious to know where that poor animal will hide from the heavy rain!! It finally got a place under the lorry which was stopped as the way was closed due to a fallen tree. Though there was rain dancing with the heavy wind to cool the weather, there was something boiling inside me which I couldn't ignore.
I was relating myself to that dog. It was being ignored!! I was questioning myself, was the pain because I was ignored by someone? My mind was churning all possible thoughts, the heart couldn't digest it, but the stomach had no idea on anything and was happy for the coffee!! My Achilles' heel is my sensitive sixth sense. It somehow senses things very quickly. Sometimes its a boon!! I never want it to make me feel low as its menace. As the coffee was going in sip by sip, my thoughts over "Being Ignored" started taking up positivism and was ready for a flock!!
There was one side of my mind which was bold and was thinking "Why the heck those people with negativity is important ??" , and my brain is worth thinking some other better ideas and "Why am I giving them the right to make me feel low?" The first self explored lesson from my thought is just ignore the people who ignore you. Simple!! yet powerful!! If they deserve your relationship, they do turn over else they would cut off - and you are away from the undesirable people!! The result of it is just as I anticipated- Happy me!!
The other kind portion of my brain was thinking - "Lets give the second chance" - But I was adamant! I can give only second chance!! please do not ask me for third , fourth or fifth.. When I am done, I am done!! There are people who will take you for granted for your acceptance of their mistake. If you keep accepting, they think you are made for that!! People do learn from their mistakes, but you should not be a part of their mistakes - just come out of it!!
I had seen people who were very close and they are maintaining distance because of the third person's hoax stories about you. You should be thankful for that situation!! That is the perfect chance given to understand the mentality of the very person. If some other can change your view, what about your view? Are they gone for toss!! The years spent in creating your view is shattered by just one gossip!! Common! Grow up!! Just give such people their time to grow up. Feel good that you are matured enough to handle it and you have overcome them by your understanding!!
My left out part of brain was thinking about the cunning people. This category of people will be part of your life from long time. And they know the in and outs of your life as you share very bit and think they can provide a shoulder for your crisis.When their own life takes the precedence, they will start to hide their details but would be very interested in your part of story. They pick the details they require.They feel jealous about your growth when you outshine!! They want you to be in the same position/place/status where you were before. And be aware!! This type of people are very difficult to identify as you feel they are your pillar of support - instead they are false roofs!!
I couldn't realize my mug of coffee was emptied when I was still gazing outside!! The wind won against the rain and had stopped, so was with my thoughts!! The weather was very cool outside, and I could feel the same in me now!! Just got up and looked out again and realized-There is nothing called worst situation, but its just how you take it!! Change the perception and look out how you want it to be!!
I was relating myself to that dog. It was being ignored!! I was questioning myself, was the pain because I was ignored by someone? My mind was churning all possible thoughts, the heart couldn't digest it, but the stomach had no idea on anything and was happy for the coffee!! My Achilles' heel is my sensitive sixth sense. It somehow senses things very quickly. Sometimes its a boon!! I never want it to make me feel low as its menace. As the coffee was going in sip by sip, my thoughts over "Being Ignored" started taking up positivism and was ready for a flock!!
There was one side of my mind which was bold and was thinking "Why the heck those people with negativity is important ??" , and my brain is worth thinking some other better ideas and "Why am I giving them the right to make me feel low?" The first self explored lesson from my thought is just ignore the people who ignore you. Simple!! yet powerful!! If they deserve your relationship, they do turn over else they would cut off - and you are away from the undesirable people!! The result of it is just as I anticipated- Happy me!!
The other kind portion of my brain was thinking - "Lets give the second chance" - But I was adamant! I can give only second chance!! please do not ask me for third , fourth or fifth.. When I am done, I am done!! There are people who will take you for granted for your acceptance of their mistake. If you keep accepting, they think you are made for that!! People do learn from their mistakes, but you should not be a part of their mistakes - just come out of it!!
I had seen people who were very close and they are maintaining distance because of the third person's hoax stories about you. You should be thankful for that situation!! That is the perfect chance given to understand the mentality of the very person. If some other can change your view, what about your view? Are they gone for toss!! The years spent in creating your view is shattered by just one gossip!! Common! Grow up!! Just give such people their time to grow up. Feel good that you are matured enough to handle it and you have overcome them by your understanding!!
My left out part of brain was thinking about the cunning people. This category of people will be part of your life from long time. And they know the in and outs of your life as you share very bit and think they can provide a shoulder for your crisis.When their own life takes the precedence, they will start to hide their details but would be very interested in your part of story. They pick the details they require.They feel jealous about your growth when you outshine!! They want you to be in the same position/place/status where you were before. And be aware!! This type of people are very difficult to identify as you feel they are your pillar of support - instead they are false roofs!!
I couldn't realize my mug of coffee was emptied when I was still gazing outside!! The wind won against the rain and had stopped, so was with my thoughts!! The weather was very cool outside, and I could feel the same in me now!! Just got up and looked out again and realized-There is nothing called worst situation, but its just how you take it!! Change the perception and look out how you want it to be!!
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